The Feeling Station

Not all grief comes with a goodbye. Sometimes it's a friendship that faded, a version of yourself you had to leave behind, or a future that quietly stopped being possible. When I wrote about this in my Note To Feelers, "Grief Without Death," many of you recognised yourselves in it. These are some of your stories. Support Tinto: www.buymeacoffee.com/feelingstation Become a Deep Feeler: ⁠https://shorturl.at/Jrdvm

Not all grief comes with a goodbye. Sometimes it's a friendship that faded, a version of yourself you had to leave behind, or a future that quietly stopped being possible. When I wrote about this in my Note To Feelers, "Grief Without Death," many of you recognised yourselves in it. These are some of your stories. Support Tinto: www.buymeacoffee.com/feelingstation Become a Deep Feeler: ⁠https://shorturl.at/Jrdvm

Not all grief comes with a goodbye. Sometimes it's a friendship that faded, a version of yourself you had to leave behind, or a future that quietly stopped being possible. When I wrote about this in my Note To Feelers, "Grief Without Death," many of you recognised yourselves in it. These are some of your stories. Support Tinto: www.buymeacoffee.com/feelingstation Become a Deep Feeler: ⁠https://shorturl.at/Jrdvm

Not all grief comes with goodbye. Sometimes it's a friendship that faded, a version of yourself you had to leave behind, or a future that quietly stopped being possible. When I wrote about this in my Note To Feelers, "Grief Without Death", many of you recognised yourselves in it. These are some of your stories. Support Tinto: www.buymeacoffee.com/feelingstation Become a Deep Feeler: https://shorturl.at/Jrdvm

Not all grief comes with a goodbye. Sometimes it's a friendship that faded, a version of yourself you had to leave behind, or a future that quietly stopped being possible. When I wrote about this in my Note To Feelers, "Grief Without Death," many of you recognised yourselves in it. These are some of your stories. Support Tinto: www.buymeacoffee.com/feelingstation Become a Deep Feeler: https://shorturl.at/Jrdvm

We have heard the childfree by choice episode told by a woman. Today, we hear it from a man. My guest has made some really tough life choices based on his experiences which have shaped his decision not to have children. This is a hard listen.

When was the last time something happened right under your nose and you didn't even notice it? And then it turns out to be a BIG DEAL!!! Find out the bits that went under my guest's radar and how it panned out for her. Support Tinto: www.buymeacoffee.com/feelingstation Become a Deep Feeler: https://shorturl.at/Jrdvm

In Episode 259, ny guest spoke about her desire to have a child. In this week's mid week drop, we hear from my guest who has chosen to live child free. It's a growing thing globally and here are her reasons why.

Back in the day we would hear about the bank of mum and dad. Things have changed... I guess. This week, it's the bank of daughter and this was a difficult one to navigate. I won't spoil it too much for you. Support Tinto: www.buymeacoffee.com/feelingstation Become a deep feeler: https://shorturl.at/Jrdvm

Architects are often very precise, pristine, measured, and accurate. Did this architect get the dimensions of his relationship correct? Find out in this week's episode of The Feeling Station. Support Tinto - www.buymeacoffee.com/feelingstation

Just like we said in part one, best not try caption this coz bwooooy!!! Show Tinto Some Love: www.buymeacoffee.com/feelingstation

I'm not sure I have more to say than the title does, so how about we skip trying to be flowery with the description and get straight into it :-) Buy Tinto A Coffee: www.buymeacoffee.com/feelingstation

The older I get, the more I appreciate that past experiences really shape our present. Could mum's past really be shaping her relationship with her daughter? Find out on this week's episode of The Feeling Station. Support Tinto: www.buymeacoffee.com/feelingstation

Every villian has a vilian origins story. Could this be the original villain story for this young Jonasi?

I'm fascinated by the word oxymoron because of how it sounds, the letters in the word, and ultimately what it means. I didn't understand it until life started lifing and this is one of those episodes that brings it to life. Listen to how my guest had to go through a form of pleasure that was displeasure to learn that he was better off alone. Support Tinto: www.buymeacoffee.com/feelingstation

The continuation of Possessive Wolf Pt. 1

Jealousy is a good thing but when it becomes being possessive, I think a real problem starts. Check out how jealousy, morphing into possessiveness turned out for my guest on this week's episode of The Feeling Station.

This is the continuation of last week's episode where Nura enlightened us on the challenges of moving on when you have fallen in too deep. Enjoy!

Sometimes the signs come as big and bright as a red london bus, but we still wave that bus down and get onto it. Thanks for Nura for this amazing episode that marks our 250th episode. Feelers and Deep Feelers, you are all AMAZING! Thank you. Celebrate with tinto: www.buymeacofffee.com/feelingstation

I've heard the term cognitive dissonance a lot of times and for some reason, I didn't understand what it meant until my guest shared her experience this week. The penny literally DROPPED!. I hope it does the same for you. Support Tinto: www.buymeacoffee.com Become a Deep Feeler: https://shorturl.at/Jrdvm

Do you now your attachment style? The guest this week did a great job of describing her attachment style and really explains how it affected her relationship. Enjoy! Buy Tinto A Coffee: www.buymeacoffee.com/feelingstation Become A Deep Feeler: https://shorturl.at/Jrdvm

I've heard about kept men before but not in this much detail. I don't want to say too much, but you'll find this very interesting. Enjoy this latest episode of The Feeling Station. Buy Tinto A Coffee: www.buymeacoffee.com/feelingstation Become A Deep Feeler: https://shorturl.at/Jrdvm

This week I am joined by a gender practitioner with a wealth of experience working in gender, safeguarding, diversity, inclusion and accountability. She joins us to talk about the complexities around issues in the last 3 episodes. We are grateful for her time and wisdom and hope you find the information useful. Remember to share it with someone you know could do with the help.

The podcast has had its fair share of heart breaking stories. With all the feel good vibes that come with Easter, we thought to share a heart warming story for the first time. We don't want to spoil it by saying too much, but it might be a good idea to listen to episodes 1 and 6 of the podcast before listening to this one. Enjoy!

Sometimes feeling unwanted is not obvious until it is OBVIOUS! This was the case for my guest on this episode. Listen to how being unwanted from birth to her giving birth to her own son played out in this week's episode of The Feeling Station

This is a continuation of the heartbreaking story that started in episode 242. If you know any way that we can help Sira with work in Kenya, please get in touch.

If we are all able to go back to the beginning, that very moment that you can remember what your mother and father were like. Would you be able so see a lot of who you are today? Or it's all a blur? My guest remembers it all too well. Listen to how that vivid memory has played out in her adult dating life. Become a Deep Feeler: https://shorturl.at/Jrdvm Buy Tinto a Coffee: www.buymeacoffee.com/feelingstation Have Fun with kids: https://amzn.eu/d/03TiqVbe

The title suggests a lot and maybe I shouldn't spoil the story with the description here. It's worth noting though that the episode has references to sexual assault and threats of physical assault suggest that you do not listen to it if it is likely to trigger you.

The analogy of eating from a mango tree has to be one of the best I've come across whilst recording episodes. Listen to how the trees and a friendship interacted in this week's episode of The Feeling station. Buy Tinto a Coffee: www.buymeacoffee.com/feelingstation Become a Feeler: Episode 240 - https://shorturl.at/Jrdvm

Pillow talk is not the time to spill the beans on your nearest and dearest. Listen to how sweet pillow talk and oranges from Tanzania played a huge part in this week's episode of The Feeling Station. Sign up for Notes to Feelers here: https://shorturl.at/Jrdvm Support Tinto here: www.buymeacoffee.com/feelingstation

Strings, strings, strings! Last I knew they were useful for beautiful instruments like the cello, double bass and violin. But humans...we like things. Listen to how strings and commitment played out for my guest on this week's episode of The Feeling Station. Support Tinto: www.buymeacoffee.com/feelingstation Become a real Feeler: subscribepage.io/WelcomeHome Connect with your kids: https://amzn.eu/d/01aOCilD

I love a cuddly story and this has a cuddly vibe that I know you'll like. Support the podcast by buying Tinto a coffee here: www.buymeacoffee.com/feelingstation

Now... I've heard this expression be used to describe an incredibly difficult moral dilemma. However, my guest and her boyfriend take the expression "between a rock and a hard place" to a new level that I didn't think think existed. You ahve to listen to get what the nuanced meaning is on this weeks' episode of The Feeling Station. Support the podcast: www.buymeacoffee.com/feelingstation

Continuation of Episode 233 : VIrus And Flowers Pt. 1 Support the podcast: www.buymeacoffee.com/feelingstation Support Tinto: https://amzn.eu/d/gBF4ehz

Viruses back in the day could completely wreck a computer system. Half the time you'd need an anti-virus. Back in my time, Dr. Solomon's Toolkit did the magic. In this episode, we have a trojan but it destroys flowers. I don't know how, but you can find out in this week's episode of The Feeling Station. Support the podcast here: www.buymeacoffee.com/feelingstation Support tinto here: https://amzn.eu/d/1AaYCST

Chaos, chaos, chaos! I don't know how many times I thought of the word chaos throughout this episode. This is a LOT! Support TFS: www.buymeacoffee.com/feelingstation Buy Tinto's book: https://tinyurl.com/yv5sc8x7 Vote for TFS: https://tinyurl.com/3nbsat3x

The first lesson is really interesting for this episode, because it really does play out. This is the best friend she never had. Thank you for supporting the podcast in many ways. Here's one of them, buying Tinto a coffee. www.buymeacoffee.com/feelingstation

Being gaslit isn't' cool especially when you can't tell that someone is gaslighting you. Check out how deep rooted love and gaslighting played out for my guest on this weekend's episode of The Feeling Station. Feeling generous? Why not support the podcast by buying Tinto a coffee at www.buymeacoffee.com/feelingstation

Blood is thicker than water, so they say. Listen to how thick or not thick the blood really is in this episode of TFS. Whilst you're listening, why not order Tinto's latest publication to have fun with friends, children and family by following this link: https://amzn.eu/d/3iiVtTG If you're feeling generous as the festive season approaches, why not buy him a coffee too by visiting www.buymeacoffee.com/feelingstation

Every now and again the body has an itch that needs attention. Whilst scratching the itch feels good most of the times, it could come with its own challenges like it did for my guest on this week's episode of TFS. If you happen to travel to South Africa and are looking for an ultra luxurious apartment to stay in check this one out by M&R Signature: https://www.instagram.com/mrsignatureimmo?igsh=NGxic3VuNW50OWUy As Christmas approaches, why not buy your young ones the perfect family activity book by Tinto that you can purchase by following this link: https://amzn.eu/d/8hWepxi

There are plenty ways of performing surgery and the newest way is through the d*ck . Listen to this wild episode and once you're done, cool the mind off by connecting the dots with my new book that you can buy right here... https://amzn.eu/d/9mmQmz0

Witches and Wizards always sound like things from a fairy tale. In this episode, a real life wizard comes to life as my guest fails to explain something happened over dinner. Check it out and tell me if you think this guy was a real wizard or naa? Love the podcast? Buy Tinto's new book that helps families connect though simple family activities in this book https://amzn.eu/d/bdIGqQ2

This episode had me spinning around in circles just as the guy's name - Whirlwind. Has someone ever really got you questioning every single one of your decisions to the point where you just went into self-destruction mode? Well... listen to how this worked out for my guest. As you listen to the episode, enjoy quality time with your family, by joining the dots in my son and I's new book that you can purchase by following this link: https://amzn.eu/d/bdIGqQ2https://amzn.eu/d/bdIGqQ2

Did you know making excuses is an actual career for some people? :-) Listen to how excuses played out for my guest on this week's episode of The Feeling Station. Whilst you're at it, check out my son and I's brand new book helping families get and stay connected. Here's your link: https://amzn.eu/d/4KD1gMq

Well... It's the update, and trust me, YOU ARE NOT READY!!! Fancy showing how much you enjoyed it? Buy Tinto a coffee by visiting www.buymeacoffee.com/feelingstation

I've not hosted a confession before. This is definitely a new one for the books and I hope I have more. This episodes presented a dilemma for me that I'm not even confident I can give solid two cents on. Listen right up to the end and tell me what you would do if you were in my guest's situation. The podcast grows with your support and if you'd like to support Tinto, why not go to his page and buy a coffee by following this link: www.buymeacoffee.com/feelingstation

I'm trying to do my best not to spoil it for you before you listen to this episode. I'm hoping the title does the episode justice. If you'd like to support the podcast you've grown to love, why not buy Tinto a coffee by visiting www.buymeacoffee.com/feelingstation and give as the spirit leads.

I've heard the saying go "don't give what you can't take". This is what really happened here.

Dreams have meaning for most people. Im not sure what the dreams in this episode meant. Do you?

What has happened to your weight when you have come out of a relationship? Do you gain or lose a few kilos or pounds? Listen to how breakups have affected us on this week's mid week drop with Tinto, Marlow, Nino Brown and our guest Nozipho. The podcast grows with your support. If you'd like to make Tinto's day, why not buy him a coffee by visiting www.buymeacoffee.com/feelingstation